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    Cynthia Rylant

    Curling up near the fireplace, wrapped in my favorite fleecy blanket, I sigh with contentment. Even in my forties, my favorite books are still picture books written for the very young. Maybe it’s the simplicity or the often beautiful, soft imagery that accompanies the words, but it is a feeling of being home. 

    Cynthia Rylant remains one of my favorite authors who chose to write for the younger generations or in my case, the young at heart. She didn’t grow up intending to write, but once she started college English courses, her fate was sealed.

    Cynthia grew up in the coal mining area of West Virginia. She was not raised near a library nor had much money. But she did love comic books and Nancy Drew mysteries that she could obtain from a local five-and-dime store.

    At twenty-three years of age, she picked up the Ox-Cart Man by Donald Hall and fell in love with that type of writing. Never having met a real writer, she began sending off her stories to publishers’ addresses. When I Was Young in the Mountains was the first narrative that was accepted. She is now the author of more than 100 books.

    She obtained a degree in library science from Kent State as a foundation for a job but her dream was to become a writer and that she did. She worked to raise her son alone while working on her stories. She couldn’t imagine only writing one style of book, so she bounced around different ideas and completed a variety of written narratives.

    Some of Cynthia’s most beloved characters are Henry and Mudge, Mr. Putter and Tabby, and Poppleton. Having written stand-alone novels, series, poetry, and picture books, she has given us a lifetime of stories to enjoy.

    My favorite of her picture books is The Birdhouse (1997) which tells the tale of an orphan girl who builds a relationship with an old woman. While trying to understand the mystery and magic of how birds seem to flock to her, she finds an unexpected home. 

    Cynthia Rylant, BookPage, interview by Linda M. Castellitto, May 2009,

    https://bookpage.com/interviews/8006-cynthia-rylant-childrens

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    Word Webs

    Words, like spider webs, are found virtually everywhere. When you consider a spiderweb, its silken threads are all connected to each other or another object, such as a plant or a window. Insects are caught within a sticky web to hold them captive. An abandoned web is often referred to as a cobweb, which is tangled weave of misshapen threads.

    Vocabulary words are the main source for growing a child’s language. Young children in particular will use concrete images to “attach” their new words to give them foundation. For example, a child who deals with visual dyslexia will use pictures as “mental grippers,” like sticky notes, for recalling them later. If you have a child that learns best being active, let them jumprope as they rhyme words or draw the words in shaving cream. 

    The key is getting the children to use the words repeatedly. Allow them to explore different options; playtime is often how kids learn best. If children learn new words but then do not interact with them in reading, play, or conversation, they will easily forget them in just a few days. Words form a tangled web of knowledge because one word can lead to many meanings. 

    So how do we encourage new words in day to day life with our kids? The most important thing is reading to them, regardless of their age or ability. It is best for kids to have the opportunity to read some books simply for fun, even if they are “below” their reading level. It is just as important for them to gain confidence by reading books on their level. In order to build an even stronger web of vocabulary words, it is crucial that we offer books above their level, a challenge, by reading aloud to them or listening to them read.

    Spiders will often have to rebuild their webs every day or so. If we apply that concept to reading webs, we need to be reviewing and rebuilding the recognition of new vocabulary as often as possible. It will solidify and create strong connections which will increase a children’s literacy skills exponentially. “Repetition is the mother of all learning.” (Zig Ziglar)

    I am known as a logo maniac…a lover of words! They fascinate me. I’ve also been accused on many occasions of making up words of my own. I am sharing some ideas I have found helpful in teaching vocabulary to expand reading and writing skills.

    1. Word Webs — give a child a simple word and have them write down any words they think of that are connected. Continue expanding the web with each word they write down.

    2. Eye Spy — an easy activity that can be played anywhere 

    3. Word Dress-up — make a list of general words such as red, car, and utensil and have your child write down a more specific kind such as scarlet, stationwagon, and fork.

    4. Shhh or shout — explain a vocabulary term and then to reinforce it, give phrases and have your child shout if it fits the word or stay silent if it doesn’t fit. This provides understanding of word usage or context.

    5. Category Sort sort a list of vocabulary words into categories, helps teach continuity of sounds and meanings

    6. Pieces and Pairs — give your children words in pairs and have them explain ifthey are opposites, synonyms, homonyms, compound words, or unrelated

    7. Rhyme Time — give your child a word and reward them a token for every rhyming word they can add; then total of tokens can be used for a new book

    8. Scavenger Hunt — once your child learns a list of vocabulary words, do a hunt for those words in word search puzzle, magazines, billboards, books, etc

    9. Board game Busters — playtime with Boggle, Pictionary, Blurt, or Bananagrams…just to name a few

    10. Vocabulary Album — create a photobook of vocabulary words and their definitions with either personal drawings or clipart

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    Literacy Playtime

    It’s the first day of school and Lillian hides behind the folds in her mama’s skirt. She pleads to be taken home, and that she doesn’t feel well.  Mary knows her daughter isn’t sick, and wonders if it could just be her nerves. As the teacher encourages Lillian to pick out her special seat, she turns to look up at her mama with tears streaming down her face. She whispers, “I can’t. I don’t know how to read very well. The kids will make fun of me. Please take me home.”

    On the other hand, her brother Lonnie runs to his classroom full of energy and spunk. He starts talking with the other kids right away. Wondering how soon recess will be, he sulks back to his desk knowing any amount of time is too long. When his teacher introduces herself, he shares with her “I don’t have time for reading. I like to build stuff and ride my bike all over town.” 

    Mary sighs, as she thinks back to when they were mere babies in her lap. Time felt frozen those first couple of years before having to go back to work. Lonnie, being the older child, doesn’t fit the mold of being studious, cautious, or an over-achiever. Whereas, Lillian is quieter, perfectionistic, and sensitive about the fact she doesn’t pick up on things as quickly as her brother.

    After finally settling both of her kids into their classrooms as best she could, Mary drives home questioning if she did everything she could to prepare them for what lies ahead. As a reader herself, she longed for both of her children to love books, but it may take more work than she thought.

    Many of you may share in some or all of these experiences. As a mom, I have definitely felt some of these struggles. There is hope…there are activities that can booster literacy and the love of reading. Let me know which ones help foster reading in your family!

    1. Family chapter reads – choose a class that will span the ages of your children and read a chapter each night to build anticipation

    2. Games – board games encourage pre-reading skills 

    3. Cozy Corner – create a special space for reading/relaxation

    4. Mix & Match – age appropriate magazines, different levels of reading, poetry

    5. Make a book – write down their own stories and make them into a book 

    6. Tea Party – celebrate reading sight words or early readers over a fancy tea

    7. Treasure Hunt – act out an outdoor adventure with a favorite book being the treasure

    8. Character Creations – make up your own book characters and create costumes

    9. Scavenger Search – hide clues around the house using book titles

    10. Library Date Day – weekly date, special library card, or summer reading program

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    Emotion Overload

    Emotions are something we all have and plenty of them. As children, it is oftentimes difficult to know how to express our emotions. Kids may know they feel frustrated, hurt, angry, or worried but do not understand how to put words to their feelings. 

    As parents we may not know the best way to talk with our young children. Books and lap time readings offer an easy conversation starter for discussing emotions, especially difficult ones like worry or jealousy. Children with special needs may struggle in different ways with emotion and how to deal with them in a constructive way. Reading aloud together promotes understanding between parent/child or teacher/child and can create a safe place.

    One of the most critical aspects is to accept that your child is having an emotional reaction to something or someone. It’s also important to love them as they need to be loved. Some may prefer snuggle time as they work through their feelings. Others may require a constructive hands-on way of expressing their emotions.

    Below are ten picture books that will help foster communication and understanding of the feelings and emotions each of your little ones experience.

    Why Do We Cry? By Fran Pintadera (new in 2020)

    A poetic story that uses metaphors and imagery to share

    that it’s okay to cry and everyone does.

    Places to Be by Mac Barnett (2017)

    With simplicity, this book celebrates emotions and the 

    adventures that come along the way.

    The Color Monster by Anna Llenas (2018)

    Using colors, monster learns social-emotional growth 

    after waking up to a day of mixed up feelings.

    Duck & Goose, How Are You Feeling? by Tad Hills (2009)

    Simple illustrations from some favorite characters

    that help preschoolers identify basic feelings.

    Ruby Finds a Worry by Tom Percival (2019)

    A poignant story about how worry can grow bigger

    but teaches how to talk about hidden anxieties.

    This Beach is Loud by Samantha Cotterill (2019)

    The beach is a great place for senses but can be

    overload to some with sensitivities. This story has

    a trick of how to handle over-stimulation.

    How Do Dinosaurs Say I’m Mad? by Jane Yolen (2013)

    With warmth, wisdom and some humor, this story helps 

    ease conversations about feeling angry.

    I Am (not) Scared by Anna Kang (2017)

    Fuzzy friends giggle through a day at an amusement

    park with scary rollercoasters and how to overcome.

    Plenty of Love to Go Around by Emma Chichester Clark (2016)

    Learning there’s enough love for everyone when an

    unexpected pet moves in next door.

    Smug Seagull by Maddie Frost (new in 2020)

    Unforgettable characters have to learn patience

    and the need for sharing in this delightful tale.